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Lease a vehicle then. I have bought 2 new vehicles in the last 15 years. My husband lost his job 2x during that time and I lost mine and had surgery and was on 60% disability. We managed. Things are never as bad as you think they are going to be. If you can afford to make payments right now then do it.
I got into a fender bender the first week I got my new car. Oh end the never ending dents from road debris and getting dinged in parking lots. It is going to happen. It happens to everyone.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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