A saw a pick up truck driving around town yesterday that had a bumper sticker, “I don’t care if you are offended”.

If your husband told you the story of some man who came in and peed on the floor, but omitted that he was drunk, you’d ask why he peed on the floor. Being “a drunk” was pertinent to the story.

I was appalled the other day when my husband made an awful crack about the poor volcano victims in Guatemala jokingly in front of a group of strangers. I get what you are saying. When your SO goes around making bad cracks about others, not only to you, but to strangers and friends...what can you do? There’s just no controlling them if they insist. I’m sorry for all who have to cope with that.