its more than rude, its ignorant. she can disagree with the lifestyle all she wants, but assuming the kid will be gay because it was named after a gay man is just rediculous. I understand your feelings because my mom is much the same way. I feel embarassed by her when she makes racist or gay comments that are totally rediculous like that. Like she said even if she liked Barack Obama, she wouldnt vote for him because his dad is muslim and he would blow up the united states. its really emabarassing but she actually said that. Maybe our moms should get together and hang out lol. Take their intolerance out on each other instead of on us!