Hi everyone and thanks for your replies. Well the cake was a success. I was coming into the meeting and the Principal asked me if it would be ok if he ate his lunch in the meeting, I responded...do you mind if I bring cake? Everyone was overwhelmed. We meet every three weeks as a committee as we are wheening my son into the regular school setting. Every three weeks we add more time to his day. The first part of the day he goes to a school for kids with mental disabilities then he goes to his public school. We have been doing thie for three years now. Next year when he goes to middles school, he will spend the first three weeks of school at the other site, then we will start wheening him into the new school...lil by lil...every three weeks.

During the meeting the Behavior Specialist had to run out for a bit. Later on in the meeting he ran out again...this time...another specialist and the prinicipal ran out. I asked, "is there something wrong my son?" They said, oh no it's probably something else. When the men came back,I asked them if it was my son, and they said yes, he was having a melt down in the computer lab. AS we were talking the HELP signal came again, so we all ran out. And of course that was the end of the meeting.

It seems he raised his hand to answer a question but the teacher let the entire class answer and he melted. But all in all, it was a good meeting.

When I got home I had an email from the district Pdoc thanking me again for the cake.