We considered our spouse to be a bully doing that psycho crap. Guess what...haven’t seen her in 2 years....3 strikes and she was out.

The silent treatment, patronizing, isolation....her way of asserting her self-supposed superiority.

This was a major trigger that we can do without. We are much calmer today.

Sounds like a marriage counselor can be of use here and he to be seeing a T.

I hope it gets better for you.