I think the word addiction has negative connotations, so I am glad it was your word and not your ts originally.
My t has suggested I was addicted to my ex because of the language I used around our relationship.
Tell me Rainbow? How do you feel about her saying you are addicted to her and therapy?
I sense that mAybe there is some shame there?
I would like to add that why wouldn’t we be addicted to therapy and I would say that it’s completely normal to want more of the positive feelings therapy brings, the attachment and connection, especially if we have attachment wounds. Experiencing a positive relationship would bring about the highs associated with addictions. Gabor mate often associates addiction and connection.
I would ask t what her meaning behind this word addiction is and is using it in a shaming way?