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Old Jun 14, 2018, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by AnnaBegins View Post
No...because he kept saying this was my fault because I was too negative and drove a wedge between us...and I believe him.
It was always my fault as well.. the T’s negative countertransference - I caused his “distance” and worse

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like the T isn’t “healthy” (imo)
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