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Originally Posted by justafriend306
It's not just the wedding, he has been ignoring me altogether. This since my kayak and equipment worth thousands were stolen from his garage, he has been off the grid in terms of any communication with me. He hasn't responded to any of my calls, emails, and texts. I don't know why. Now he is getting married next month and I haven't received an invitation. I know they are out; as, I saw one weeks ago at my father's and stepmother's home.
I am unsure why this is happening. I am unsure what to do. It all seems so absurd to me and yes I am hurt too. Is it because he is so embarrassed about the theft? Perhaps, as I suspect, it turns out it was an inside job after all (I've kept my suspicions to myself). Or does this go deeper and is this a response to something I've apparently done but know nothing of?
This all seems so awkward. Perhaps there is a simple explanation. Maybe for instance the invitation is lost in the mail. But asking if I am invited seems confrontational.
Do I just go on as if nothing is afoot?
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My first impression was to think that he might be kind of feeling ashamed that your stuff was stolen under his watch and in his care though that's assuming you haven't had any other obvious falling out or something. You seem kind of baffled by it so I'm guessing you didn't fight or anything with him.
I remember you mentioning the theft but did you ever imply to him it was someone there that stole the stuff?
by saying he's ignored you, do you mean you try to message him or email him and it goes unanswered or is it just that he hasn't been communicative with you lately? being ignored and dealing with someone that just isn't talking at the moment are two vastly different things. I am sure you feel ignored but if he's merely silent could it be he's busy with wedding preparations?
Assuming he's just silent try hitting him up and casually bring up the wedding as a subject. open the door to him saying something or even you mentioning or asking something to inquire about the details of when and where etc. If you're truly not invited, then I'm sure that way it would come out but if it's something that just slipped, that would become clear too.
Hope this helps.