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Old Jun 14, 2018, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
The idea that therapy can become an addiction is something some of those guys seem to think about:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...omes-addiction

https://www.nytimes.com/1993/04/18/w...ittle-way.html
Thanks! I can relate to those.

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
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Thanks, Fuzzy.
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Originally Posted by TheLonelyChemist View Post
Yes it's definitely possible. Addiction is not limited to drugs. Anything that makes you feel better can be addictive.
I agree.

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Originally Posted by Cheryl27 View Post
Hug's Rainbow i know for me I have been in therapy for a very long time and i see no end in sight. Im ok with that. It puzzles me your t would bring up addiction to therapy right now with what your going through psychially. I would deffintly bring it up to her next week. Hugs
Thanks. I agree! I knew she wouldn't explain via email. "Framework to help me" is so vague!

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Originally Posted by velcro003 View Post
My T frequently says “Everyone is an addict,” so she’s big on that.
Everyone?

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Originally Posted by TheLonelyChemist View Post
The therapists have weird ways to fix us, so I suggest you to listen to her... :/ that's good for us.
I do know I'm sort of addicted to therapy, but her timing bothered me.

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Originally Posted by yellow_fleurs View Post
I think I have been "addicted" to people before, although not to the extreme. For me I think I was having a lot of internal pain, anxiety, loneliness, and this person/people could provide me with something like feeling happy/secure, etc, but it was brief and didn't come from within me. I realized after moving away from some of these people, that it was a bit of a crutch for me, and that I wasn't really addressing the fact that deep down I was depressed. In a way, I think this resulted in giving over my power over my own life a little bit. Getting away from this was very painful, and resulted in a bit of a breakdown because I suddenly had to just sit with these terrible moods and really face them. This spurred me into finally getting into treatment and seeing a psychiatrist, though.

On a positive note, all of those relationships are so much healthier now and I don't feel as dependent on them to make me feel happy or secure. I am not sure that was the best way for your T to bring it up, but it definitely is something that I am not surprised your T would want to address, because otherwise you might remain stuck and not progress in therapy. There is no reason to feel bad, though, it probably means you just have some things that need working out in therapy.
Thank you. I'm embarrassed to say how many years I've been in therapy but I've had different kinds. I'm not sure I'm stuck. I just want the continued support. T would rather I give a lot of support to myself instead. My pattern is to want it to come from T.

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Originally Posted by nikon View Post
maybe she just used that word because it suggests that you feel that you can't function without therapy - just as conventional addicts can't function with their substance/addictive behaviour.
I think you hit the nail on the head, Nikon. Or maybe I can function but don't want to. I feel like I need my T in my life forever. I have friends but I want the undivided attention I get from T even if I have to pay a lot for it. I don't know if that's addiction. Probably.e

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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
There's an odd goofball arrogance to therapy. My T says variously I am important to you right now and this work we do together is essential - that kind of stuff. These might be true, but it is really strange to say it.
Thanks. Yeah, therapy is weird!7

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Originally Posted by ElectricManatee View Post
Is it weird that I'm imagining him swinging a pendulum in front of your eyes like a cartoon hypnotist while he says that?
Hmm.