coolibarian beat me too it, but i will definitly reiterate it again...RUN! run as fast and as far as you can from this crazy shrink ASAP!

similar to allheart and toomanycats, i have been there too. in fact, as i read your original post, i could not stop wondering if your T and my ex-T were not one of the same. the familiarity of the inconsistencies and the way that my ex-T had a hold over my deepest fears and how he manipulated and twisted those fears to feed his needs over and over again. how he easily dismissed and blamed my frustrations and disappointments on me, it was my problem and my fault...i was 'setting him up'. it was absolute crazy making and felt like a complete mind f*#k. the most enlightening decision i ever made while in therapy was to end the therapy and the relationship. i no longer fear him nor does he have that kind of crazy making hold over me. life is good now with out him in it