It definitely makes a lot of sense. I guess for me, I love this man and I think he is worth being around and caring about and I want him to not be alone through this. I want him to know that no matter what "it" does to us or him, that I will always be there to support him. But "it" is tearing me down and I dont know what else to do b/c he's pushing me away. I grew up as a child w/ not very many friends and I was alone alot, doing things by myself and I know what it feels like to not have someone there by my side as my rock. I want different for him and I only hope that I will be able to reach him someday, somehow, no matter what happens to our marriage. He's worth fighting for.