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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Thank you, Seesaw.  I have done that in the past with other abusive relationships in fact, and it does work.
In this case, in the end during a big fight where I confronted him with his lies, he had told me he loved his other ex fiance more than me. That is the cruel thing he said to me that made me so bitter and resentful of even trying to help him to begin with.
In contrast to this, I have a prior email from him saying the exact opposite -- that he loved me more than anyone he had ever met. That's the only thing I have to negate his cruel words -- that, and all the other 1,000 times he had told me how much he loved me. But still, it makes me wonder, which was the truth? |
I recommend you delete old emails from him. Why keep them?
Do you find it important to know the truth who he loved more? It’s kind of irrelevant, isn’t it? You’ll never find out. We can only know what we think. Not what others think.
He was a liar and who knows what he really thought. He is a user who looks for women to support him, and he is an abuser as well. He lived off you, stole from you and treated you poorly but I wonder why you choose to focus on who he loved more. Does it matter?
You stopped financially supporting him so he had no need to say anything nice anymore, he is a user. I find it interesting how he is “ex-fiancée” with everyone. Did he really think women will marry him? I wonder if he is “fake engaged” again to make sure he can get women to support him.
He isn’t worth your time really