Only once I have told T what I thought what I thought they were feeling. Not because I don't know but I just didn't want to assume and be wrong.

The one time I did was when the fire alarm went off at the beginning of a session after figuring out the cause and talking to others we decided to ignore it. She said she was fine but it was up to me. I had no desire to go out. I could tell she was nervous so after asking her a couple of times I finally asked if she was really okay because ahe seemed nervous. She agreed she was and she realized why so she was fine..we moves on and I could tell she was no longer nervous