Has anyone been tempted to lie to their T so as not to disappoint them? My T has been working hard with me to stand up for myself in certain relationships, even going out if her way to call me this week to help me deal with a situation at work in a more healthy way. Now I’m going to see her tomorrow and she’ll ask what I did and I don’t want to disappoint her and tell her I didn’t speak to my coworker the way we discussed it ssk my boss for a meeting. She’ll tell me she’s not disappointed in me, that she’s disappointed for me. But I know she’ll be frustrated and sad. I’m also scared that because she went out of her way this time giving me extra support on the phone and I still couldn’t have the discussion with my colleague, that next time she won’t bother to give me that extra support. I know it’s awful of me, but I don’t want to lose that from her and I’m really tempted to lie about it to her. Just wondering if anyone has been in this situation and what you’ve done.