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Originally Posted by divine1966
I recommend you delete old emails from him. Why keep them?
Do you find it important to know the truth who he loved more? It’s kind of irrelevant, isn’t it? You’ll never find out. We can only know what we think. Not what others think.
He was a liar and who knows what he really thought. He is a user who looks for women to support him, and he is an abuser as well. He lived off you, stole from you and treated you poorly but I wonder why you choose to focus on who he loved more. Does it matter?
You stopped financially supporting him so he had no need to say anything nice anymore, he is a user. I find it interesting how he is “ex-fiancée” with everyone. Did he really think women will marry him? I wonder if he is “fake engaged” again to make sure he can get women to support him.
He isn’t worth your time really
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Yes, it matters. It matters very much. I was engaged to him. I was very much in love with him. I thought at one point we would get married. I went far out of my way to help him. I uprooted my entire life to save him from homelessness. I supported him for months. I even bought his bus ticket home, because I still loved him very much. Yes, it matters. It matters a whole lot whether he loved her more, and whether his feelings for me were just BS. It matters a lot whether he was lying to me the whole time about how much he loved me.
But that one email says differently, so I don't know....
maybe he just wanted to push me away and that was his way of doing it, by hurting me. We couldn't continue our relationship once he went home, we both knew this deep inside after a while, but we still tried and hung on. Then I caught him lying, we had a HUGE fight and he told me while angry and upset with me that he had loved her more.