Oh yes, the gut intuition will not fail you! And, T is right, it is not a judgement of another individual. Sometimes our guts will tell us to be careful and we don't exactly know why. But if we heed what our instinct is telling us, sooner or later the answer becomes very clear.

I never had a lot of close friends in my life. And like you, as I grew older, there seemed to be less and less. What I found was that I was in a "negative" space in my life. When I finally realized that, I changed how I thought and went to the positive side of everything. It was my nature to be positive, but for so long I denied it and was negative. Once I became more positive, it was easier to surround myself with those who were positive also! I was able to find more supportive and loving individuals to become friends with. It was an awesome feeling to find that again.

My mom used to tell me when I was young that I will have many acquaintances in my life. She said that if I went through life with one or two "good" friends that I was blessed. The older I get, the more I realize how right she was

I wish you well (((( UCLAfan )))) on your journey to find the right kind of friends for you!


sabby