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Jun 15, 2018, 08:34 PM
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That's why you can't let it go, because you still think it matters. The reality is he didn't love either of you. He used both of you. Once you can accept that, you may be able to see that you will never be able to understand his behavior because he was a user and abuser.
I understand that it still bothers you but the way to get over it is to continue to remind yourself that it doesn't really matter bc it's over now and you have moved on. Eventually you will not have to remind yourself.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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