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Old Jan 17, 2005, 10:29 PM
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I believe for most couples, you are refering to what is known as "the honeymoon period". When hubby and I were in college (the first time we really got the option to be together) we were inseperable. Did everything together. If I was invited, he had to be too, or I wouldn't go.

Now we enjoy our personal time...spending time apart is healthy. We are partners...in things through thick and thin, but we also need time to foster our own identity. I can't always be part of Erin and ____. I have to have some time to be myself...to do things he isn't interested in and vice versa. Spending time away from him makes me miss him, appreciate him, and love him more.

As long as you aren't neglecting other parts of your life, I think you're fine. Relationships grow and change. It's part of life...or so they tell me.

Good luck!
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