But why does it matter what he “said” when you already know he is a liar. What “liars” say can’t possibly mean that much.

And why comparing who the person loves “more”. Who says these kind of things? I find such comparisons rather curious. We love people differently. Every relationship is different. Telling a woman he loves her MORE than he loved others smells fishy to me as yet another ploy to keep her hooked and brainwashed. When brainwashing wasn’t needed, neither was saying this nonsense. How does one even compare like that? I love my husband very much and am very happily married yet I see no need to tell him I love him more than I loved my first husband, for example. Why say such silly things?

I notice that you tend (and hopefully you dont anymore and it’s in the past) go by what men “say” rather than what they “do”. What does it matter what he “said” if what he “did” indicated that he wasn’t to be trusted and wasn’t a suitable partner.