Mine is the same, weekends are his time to be away from work things. Unless it's a legit crisis, like someone in my life died or something, he wont reply. It truly does suck but I've gotten used to it. I have had to learn other ways to cope on weekends like venting to people online, journalling or crisis line. I've mentioned it before about the weekends and he sticks with his reasons, I just have to respect it. I don't wanna be demanding and make him stop his private life for me.

I guess, I would work on other options to cope. I don't like relying on people either so coping skills I can do on my own are great for me, another one is journaling. There is a lot of nice Facebook groups for anxiety and such that you can vent on or here or reddit has a therapy forum etc.