And I honestly think we would all feel so much better about ourselves if we really knew all of the other crazy sexual thoughts everyone else has. We just don't talk about this stuff with each other so we think our own desires are so strange. That's really not the case. I feel the more strange we think we are, to a certain degree of course, the more normal we might actually be if that makes any sense. I feel like the vast majority of us just cannot fathom how similar we actually are to each other.