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Originally Posted by Lemoncake
@Ididitmyway- your post is very well written!
T's also seem to not get the fact that many clients also lack object consistency. I know I do. It takes time, and experience for a child to develop a sense that when someone leaves the room, the person is still on the same planet, and will reappear again. I needed to know that he was still "there" when I couldn't see him.
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Yes, exactly! This is part of what I thought I got from current T when he gave me (upon my request) the transitional object of the stone from his office...but then in talking to him about it, it wasn't as how I thought it was, and I ultimately gave it back.