What happened with your T, Raine?

Your post reminded me of this show I am watching, Dr. Foster. She belittles her friend who was grieving deeply (and unhealthily) for his partner who died a slow, awful death because what she is going through "is so much worse!" What she is going through is that her husband has been cheating on her for the past 2 years, and his partner is pregnant. I find that "logic" awful, and no one should compare each other's pain. So, I get what you mean, but pain is pain.