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Originally Posted by HowDoYouFeelMeow?
Your communication style comes across as very demanding and abrasive. It could potentially be a reason why you have trouble making other people behave in the way that you want. If your approach with getting the therapist to do what you want is not working, then it would be a good idea to ask yourself if a different approach would work, if a compromise/different demand could satisfy your needs, or if the therapist's reasons for not meeting your demands are indeed valid to most others. From your past posts, it seems as if trying to do things strictly your way is not working and it might be time to consider a new method.
I really hope you are open-minded to these ideas. I feel sad that you are hurting and frustrated rather than recovering and happy. I'm sorry this sucks. I'm afraid that if you reject everything perceived as criticism or everything that does not directly solve your problem in the way you want, that you might not get better as quickly as we hope because your illness is blocking your ability to learn the proper recovery tools. It's not your fault. I hope my reply isn't perceived as something negative because I really care about your well-being (it took 30 minutes to write this) and wanted to offer an outsiders perspective.
One thing I like to remember is that the fish knows the least about water. It lives in the water 24-7, and has no other environments to compare it to.
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I'm glad I am now able to perceive things in a better way
I do not want to compromise on things. For example, I want to negotiate with a person who has done wrong for me and do not want to move on. To add more to that, I
tried hard to move on and I did not succeed
So I need a professional to help me sort out the hurt in a way that actually understands me, rather than put me in a negative spotlight and the person who hurt in an innocent spotlight like some therapist has done.
It's hard, and I feel the stress eating me away and it's disastrous. I try walking and resting as much as possible. It has helped so far. I'm starting to understand the importance of mental health, but mental health is not healthy if not listening to what I
truly want to achieve in life