It always amazes me how people use the evolutionary theory of childbearing abilities to explain why men are attracted to younger women. If the are so attracted, naturally, to childbearing women, why do they want women to stay slim? Why do they run in fear the moment anything of childbearing and parenting hits the discussion? Men want women as status objects to promote their own image to other men as a competition and an ego booster.

For those men who I know are more responsible for partners and children, I am obviously not referring to you. I refer to those who want a little young woman while they are starting to bald or round out around the waistline. Men also want a woman who performs like a prostitute, but saved herself for him and only him, and will devote her time to taking care of him.

There are also women who, like this one, want to be taken care of and be pampered and spoiled but yet don't want to put any effort into the relationship. Ladies, if this is what you want, go back to Daddy.

Life and relationships require hard work by both members of a relationship. Ignore the unrealistic social picture of romance and constant fun. It takes tolerance, devotion to similar goals by each partner and understanding when we or our partner can't be perfect.