The word that keeps coming to my mind when thinking about the question posed is: Inertia. Bodies at rest tend to stay at rest, and I think often that's what our resistence to taking positive steps to change, actual concrete steps, is that = tis often easier not too, plus, as Dr. Phil would say, (***Peanut has a 1/2 tongue in cheek because is 'on the fence' when it comes to his advice***), we must be getting some kind of 'payoff' for not changing. Just some thoughts...

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