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Old Jun 17, 2018, 08:06 PM
Lrad123 Lrad123 is offline
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
I am also an infp but in a creative field. I think if I were in a caring profession I’d give until it hurts. I don’t know if I have the boundaries to work in a caring field. What I do does not save lives.
I think INFPs are supposed to be creative, right? I’m in a medical field so not sure how traditionally creative I am, but I’d like to think there’s at least a little bit of an art to what I do and that I’m able to think outside the box. I wish I were more traditionally creative though, and I definitely appreciate the arts.

Regarding “giving” in a caring profession, I’ve learned to create emotional distance between myself and my patients otherwise I wouldn’t be able to function (I’d give and give and give) and I’d be consumed by their stories (they are cancer patients). That doesn’t mean I don’t think about them when I’m at home or sometimes in the middle of the night or whenever. I am immensely touched by just about every patient who lets me into their lives and it is incredibly fulfilling. I think that’s why I have a little bit of an easier time with that concept in therapy. I have had the feeling of being left alone with my feelings after a session while I know my T is moving on to the next thing. But then I remember that it’s not personal and it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care.
Thanks for this!
growlycat, LonesomeTonight