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Old Jun 18, 2018, 08:00 AM
Anonymous50987
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Originally Posted by Heartlight View Post
I like the title of your thread. I support your efforts to get your problems resolved by interacting with your therapist rather than just taking orders from him/her. Talking and working together is what therapy is about. Helping the client to resolve problems in a way they are comfortable with is good therapy. If the therapist does not understand you, I don't see how they can help you. If they have trouble communicating with you, it's just another indicator to get out.
I communicated outside therapy, and made a request. I asked for a compromise and they insisted on their stand. I felt opposed, all I wanted was to know if what I proposed is OK.
There's a limit to how much I can skip therapists however. I want it to help but the clashes of world views are very problematic for me. I want a therapist to understand my worldviews and help me grow from it, rather than remold over, and over, and over. I hate this process, it's absolutely disgusting