I completely agree with pegasus!!! This is not an ethical way for a t to behave. Please report it!!! THe moeny stuff and that she said it is ok for you to die. It is NOT ok at all.

I'm even studying ethics right now and i can flat out tell you this is not acceptable. I hope you can put any feelings for her aside and report her. Especially when she thinks another person will "get there" before you. So not ok.

Have curage and report her - at least for your self, but also for others so they will not go through the same thing!!!

And please stay safe - find another t to work with.