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Old Jun 19, 2018, 08:04 AM
Anonymous45127
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Originally Posted by LostOnTheTrail View Post
Oof...any 'therapist' who asks a client to describe their trauma in one sentence...Nope.

My own experience was weirdly similar...the person I met with before R asked me to explain the short version, and then said 'And you can't just let this go?'
I had one who demanded verbatim quotes and graphic details of examples of pretty severe workplace sexual harassment I experienced after wanting the 1 sentence summary.
He kept victim blaming me and saying "It's been so long, and you can't let it go? Stop being a victim and take personal responsibility."

Also told me he didn't believe me about certain teachers bullying me.

So I didn't tell him about any traumas because I knew he'd say the same crap.

Shamed me for shedding tears (after he asked me to describe stuff in graphic detail) saying crying is proof I have emotional regulation issues.
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