I do think about the spouses, I wouldn't want to hurt anyone. I cannot control what goes on in my head, especially the unconscious part.
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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I agree with the above -- I would also add to keep your own husband in mind and his feelings. How would you feel if your husband behaved that way around another female? Would you feel hurt and betrayed or would it not matter to you?
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Actually, now that I am going through this, I would be more understanding if my husband fell for another woman. I would definitely not like that and I would feel hurt, but if it happened unintentionally... I really did not plan or aim for developing feelings for another man, but here I am.
I do feel like I am betraying my husband little bit, not physically of course. I do believe it would hurt him a lot if he found out what is happening to me.