That's one thing I've had trouble with... telling people. A lot of people really don't understand alcoholism, or the need to put something into your body to make your self different. They only see the stigma. I've had friends not even believe me when I tell them, because all they see is the stigma and sterotype, not a person. I don't really like to talk about this stuff with my family. We've never really been the type to share. My parents have always been on a "need to know" basis, where generally unless it is imperative that they know something, I'm safer not telling them. It would feel so awkward having to tell all my relatives that I don't drink, and why. Maybe I don't have to tell them why. (?) At the same time I don't like the fact that not drinking separates me from every one. After I told my brother he stopped inviting me out. I was wondering why he stopped calling for a while. That was why. But after Friday night, maybe my social life will have a little more "life". We'll see what I can handle.
But you're right, for sure. It needs to be done.