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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2
I just tune them out and do it the way I want to do it. But of course, when the next comes out, they deal with it in their own way. Like I enjoy the pressure of trying to please everyone- it’s impossible.
But being that my parents are triggers- the butt kissing alter will come out and in the end we will get pissed.
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AlwaysChanging,
Yes, I experience what you do. At first, the independent adult side of me, but eventually, the butt kissing alter. When I notice myself doing it, it's like I can't stop it. But later, I realize that I have given my parents a free pass and blamed myself for the problems we've had between us. Then little alters feel upset and betrayed by me, and I feel like a hypocrite.