I think the term "abused" can be confusing in itself tbh. Truth is a lot of parents don't "intentionally" abuse and neglect their children. A talented successful parent can unknowingly neglect their own child, leave their own child feeling that if they are not as talented like their parent then they are unworthy. Actually, a lot of very famous stars/celebrities ended up having some very confused challenged children who lived in the shadows only of their parent's great successes and achievements and adoration's.