I don't have a secure attachment style with anyone. I was diagnosed with a personality disorder, NOS, with avoidant features. So.....I tend to be avoidant with emotional issues. I desperately want to be emotionally close to others, but my childhood just didn't allow me to develop a secure attachment style.

All of that said, I've read a couple of professional journal articles that dealt with patients who did not have secure attachment styles, but were able to attain an "earned" security attachment with their therapist.