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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Ty for this!
May I ask what needs of yours writing all that down serves?
What I am facing is not telling the person off necessarily & starting a fight, but putting them in their place and saying it like it is.
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Hi—sorry I took so long to reply—
I think that’s exactly why I write it down: to put her in her place and tell it like it is. But then... if I actually do that it doesn’t work out for me—I might look at it as communication but she looks at it as a fight. So it doesn’t matter what I say: anything I say can and will be used against me in a future fight. It’s really better to just not communicate with her, but because I have it bouncing around my head, it helps to write it down.