To be honest, I find you quite scary. I don't say that to offend or upset, although I know if someone said that to me I would be really upset myself. So I know that it might, and I am sorry for that. But I want to tell you despite that risk. Because I think it is important to get honest feedback about how we come across to others.

So, I say with all honestly I find you to be quite scary. In a "if you say anything I don't like you can go get ****** " kind of way. I doubt I am the only poster who feels that way.

If I were a therapist and you came in to my office I do believe I would be **** scared of you.

A question:

Do you want to come across that way to others? Is that intended? Or is it not? Are you aware of it?