I don't think I ever responded to your questions as I had nothing to say or suggest. But I have to agree with what Amy said. I think i'd be a little bit afraid of you if I met you in person.
This was mainly caused by your thread where you said you have no problem with hurting others and don't like being challenged about that. To me it sounded like you feel your abuse gives you right to abuse others.
I think perhaps this thread might have caused that some members of the forum chose not to reply.
I'm very sorry if that thread wasn't yours and I'm mixing you with someone else. In that case I deeply apologise and will delete this part of my post.
I get a similar feeling when you write about your Ts. I personally hate fake smiles and fake acted empathy as well. However from reading your post it seems like you are trying very hard to see the negatives in everyone.