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Originally Posted by seeker33
I don't think I ever responded to your questions as I had nothing to say or suggest. But I have to agree with what Amy said. I think i'd be a little bit afraid of you if I met you in person.
This was mainly caused by your thread where you said you have no problem with hurting others and don't like being challenged about that. To me it sounded like you feel your abuse gives you right to abuse others.
I think perhaps this thread might have caused that some members of the forum chose not to reply.
I'm very sorry if that thread wasn't yours and I'm mixing you with someone else. In that case I deeply apologise and will delete this part of my post.
I get a similar feeling when you write about your Ts. I personally hate fake smiles and fake acted empathy as well. However from reading your post it seems like you are trying very hard to see the negatives in everyone.
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You may not be wrong.
I once made a thread about being compensated for damage done to me by someone who was supposed to care for me. I did not have any intent to abuse, but to get what is right for me
The therapist with whom I talked about this completely disregarded the possibility that I have gone through abuse, and instead chose to look at me in a dismissive manner - "Why do you think you deserved to be compensated?", she asked. I told her and she asked again, regardless if that value of mine has anything to do with people or not. So I told her about my skills. I acted compliantly, I do not see where this is my problem. The therapist after some time asked the same question, "Why do you think you deserve that?", as if I've said nothing until now. They were the same therapist with the sarcastic empathetic nod. I left