Wonder about what?

Human beings are each unique beings, the way I see it, and we see things our own way. You see things your way, I get that. And I see what you are talking about frequently, and understand some of that, I think.

But I am a person separate from you, have had different experiences as well as some similar ones. That's just fact. And so even if I can understand how you see things, I am not necessarily going to see things the same way.

Hence my frustration in trying to relate to you. That's a statement about me, and my feelings of frustration, not a statement about you.