I am going to be travelling this coming week and visiting my sister and my daughter and her family.

Problem is I have not already disclosed to them my diagnosis of OSDD-1 and because of my "fragile" state of parts coming out so often, I am fearful my child parts--especially Sandi--will come out and they will think I am weird.

I need to tell my daughter because I already told my other daughter and she may accidentally let it slip. (She knows about Billy.) Also I am going to be babysitting my granddaughter in October and I am fearful my daughter may lose confidence in my ability to do so. But if I don't tell her and she finds out another way, our relationship could be damaged.

I will be talking to T tomorrow about it, but I wondered if any of you had any tips?