Hello Karentato: I'm sorry I don't have any insights to offer with regard to this. However I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

I'm sorry you are having to cope with these most difficult circumstances. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support. Another forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the relationships & communication forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...communication/

My best wishes to you...