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Originally Posted by golden_eve
oh dear Purple, I am so sorry to hear this and I empathize enormously. I've been berated, yelled at and chewed out by a boss before, not for two hours though, but I do know the feeling. That is SO unprofessional and uncalled for. You don't deserve that..... I ended up in the hospital suicidal myself that very night it happened to me.... then I took four and a half months off due to my boss's persistent bullying that had occurred over the course of that year, all at my own financial expense.
yes, document and go higher up, regardless, think about your options.... if you absolutely need to quit, can you do temp work instead? Though I do advise finding a position before outright quitting. Quitting can cause financial hardship and stress if you must pay rent and pay bills, etc. But perhaps a staffing agency can help place you more quickly?
In the meantime, do whatever self-care is needed to maintain your sanity.... ((((((((Purple)))))) thinking of you!
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Thanks so much for your lovely message, Eve.
Yes, I'm job searching every day. I'll just keep chugging away until something comes up that makes me think, yes, I wouldn't mind doing that.
I'm still deciding whether to complain officially etc. I don't think I'd have enough evidence to win a case against her./ the company. But it's good to have that up my sleeve.
If she isn't nice to me from now on, I will threaten to complain. If she still carries on, I'll complain.
I am determined now to make my workplace a safe place. Probably by changing jobs. I'm just trying to take things one day at a time.
I've had a conversation with her boss. Just informally. We were working together, and I thought oh what the hell. I said what had happened, and made it clear that I am not happy, and that I would never let this woman talk to me like that again.
So, the company are being respectful to me at the moment. But I have zero faith in them, to be honest