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Originally Posted by graystreet
It’s hard not to feel guilty for how your bf feels, but you simply can’t go. There isn’t anything to be done about it. He has the choice to go on his own, he chooses not to. Therefore, it isn’t your fault that he is upset, here. He’s making his own choice. And it’s not like Phish is going to suddenly stop touring and you’ll miss the boat. It’s Phish. But, at some point adult responsibilities have to take precedence over our desire to be free and be part of the hippie culture  I’m having my own issues reconciling that lately. And I’ve been an adult a long long time. |
YES, YES & YES! I think my bf kinda likes to put fun first, I've learned. I am the more responsible, level headed one in our relationship -- not that he's not responsible -- he is. But I am his logic and reason. He often has fantastical ideas that are not rooted in reality, lol.
And yeah, that culture certainly lends to wanting to be free spirited!!! It's SO easy to get caught up in it -- this show, that show, what's next? Let's go!!! LOL.
And with the Grateful Dead being gone, with Jerry Garcia long gone and John Mayer not being quite the best replacement for him? Well, Phish then at least is still together and touring..... for now. They did split once years ago then got back together.
Anyways, it's great hearing there are a couple of Phish fans in the crew here & I hear ya!
