No, there’s a non-short list of things I avoid talking about because past experience at broaching those topics showed me that she’s rather terrible at them.

There’s also a bunch of different ways of talking that I avoid — for example, my usual way of discussing something about her or the relationship would be to be totally analytical about it (with little emotion). But, I’m finding that she gets kinda pissy / irritated / non-warm / argumentative (needlessly so) when I do that. I used to think it’s because I usually had these sorts of discussions when we were otherwise rupturous.

But, yesterday, I brought up just a random thing that I’d noticed about her (wasn’t remotely angry) and she reacted in the same weird way.

So yeah, I do censor myself some. It doesn’t matter a great deal in terms of the core issues I’m sorting out and so, it’s okay.