I voted yes, I can tell her anything. I have told her some unspeakable things that I couldn't or wouldn't tell anybody else, and she has helped me understand them. I have asked her personal questions, some of which she has answered and some she hasn't. But she never seems upset when I ask. If she doesn't answer, she usually steers the conversation toward why I'm asking and what it would mean to me if the answer was one thing or another. Sometimes I welcome that line of questioning and sometimes I shut it down because I am embarrassed. I have actually talked about her sex life in general terms (no questions) because it was relevant to something I was explaining about myself. She did not seem ruffled even by that. I don't think it's my job to filter myself in session, and I'm pretty sure she would agree.