Thread: Does your T?
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Old Jun 21, 2018, 09:41 PM
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Yes my T does, but has lessened since the beginning. She told me right off in our first session together that sometimes she starts talking and can't stop, and that I need to interrupt her and tell her to shut up! lol.

I think she has figured out with me that too much self-disclosure is not helpful, so while she does relate things from her life that resonate with mine, it isn't that often, and I am okay with that. I like that she is human with her own foibles, but I don't want to know the intricacies of her life.

She is also very genuine-seeming in her interactions with me, so that is more important to me than any of her own history.