Then no man (including my husband) wants to have sex with me, even though I would absolutely love to have some great sex.
It's very sad, really. When I was younger, pretty, and thin I couldn't keep men away. So now I do my best to enjoy being "my own best friend". Most of the time, I'm okay with it. But would I love to have one day of being 39 again? (I'm 55.) Sure I would.