I said I can tell my T anything but I know there are questions she won't answer, like about her sexual relationship. So I wouldn't ask.

I have to be prepared for answers I don't like. When I emailed recently, about her breaking my heart because I wished we had a REAL relationship, she wanted to reinforce that she is my T and it's not about her, but about me. She says I fantasize that it is more. She wants me to find support from people in my real life, and that's been her goal for 8 years. It's fine to talk about my problem doing that, so I do believe I can tell T anything.