I have this friend who I have currently blocked on all social media and feel I need to keep from my life.

What happened this time is she acted way too interested and involved in my divorce.

Last Friday, she called me and taunted me yet again, antagonizing, about my husband and I getting back together, my taking him back. I told her I didn’t want to discuss anything with her. She refused to back off. She proceeded to text bomb me about how I have BPD and I better not divorce my husband because I am miserable with or without him. I would text back “I have corrected you several times already about how I was never diagnosed with BPD. You are such a bad friend. I won’t discuss this with you. Stop texting me. Back off.” But she wouldn’t stop text bombing me.

I don’t know what her problem is and why she felt she had to harass me so bad I would defriend her.

Is she even a genuine friend or is this the behavior of a foe?

Who the hell is she to tell me I shouldn’t divorce my husband— while I am divorcing my husband? Is she just trying to screw with my head?

Normally, I don’t let her get to me. I dismiss most of what she says. But this weekend, she was a contributor to my major PTSD meltdown over my son. It was an overload between her, my mother, my husband, and then what my son did.

So, needing to protect myself, I can’t have this friend anymore. I wish I knew if I could trust that she was truly a friend or not.